Solution: You must be willing to end your interactions with women whom you feel you are incompatible.
If a woman displays disrespectful behavior, is rude, or has inappropriate beliefs and value systems – you must be willing to stop pursuing her, regardless of how attractive she is.
It may seem counterintuitive to say don’t have an agenda when dating, after all surely the whole reason we date is to meet ‘your man’ right? Ultimately and long term this is the desire, however you drastically reduce your chances of getting to that stage if you approach dating with an agenda.
At this stage in the game it is far better to view dating for what it is – a chance to meet and be around members of the opposite sex for coffee, walks, chatting and so on.
On Monday, we talked about how the key to learning any new skill is to deconstruct it.
You want to break the skill – whether it’s playing guitar, learning a new language or even dating – into its core components.
After all, you need to learn to crawl before you run.
One of the keys to deconstructing a skill is to find and focus on the areas that cause people to stumble and fail.
I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in their 40s, 50s and beyond.After all, it doesn’t do any good to spend your time learning bad habits that you will only have to unlearn later on. We have a hard time assuming that perhaps the most obvious answer is the right answer because we grew up believing that the obvious answer was a trap of some kind.But sometimes those sticking points aren’t where you think they are. You see, when you’re clever and you know it, you’re more likely to actually make things more complicated then they truly are. Clearly it’s too obvious, therefore there has to be something we’re not seeing…So I thought I’d tell you about the experience men have when they’re trying to “date like a grownup.” If you’ve read my e Book, you know that I believe strongly that empathizing with men is absolutely essential to your dating and relationship success.The definition of empathy is “the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person’s feelings. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. But I tell them that I help men by helping women who are dating after 40. ) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men.